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Friday, 06 September 2024 04:41

If you agree with these 3 statements, you might be a cynic

Renée Onque Being cynical may seem harmless, or even safer than trusting others, but that’s far from the truth, according to Jamil Zaki, an associate professor of psychology at Stanford University. He is the author of the new book “Hope for Cynics: The Surprising Science of Human Goodness.” Cynicism is “the belief that humanity in general is selfish, greedy and dishonest,” Zaki tells CNBC Make It, and it can be harmful for your health. “Cynics tend to be more depressed [and] anxious. They suffer from more addiction. But it’s also physical. Cynics tend to suffer from more heart disease [and]…

Sunday, 01 September 2024 04:56

A Nigerian’s guide to weddings as the economy nosedives - The Economist

Yoruba weddings last months, not days. There is a party when families are introduced. A bigger one follows for traditional marriage rites and the presentation, from the groom’s family to the bride’s, of everything from yams to jewellery. Last comes the religious ceremony and a reception. The betrothed can cycle through over ten bespoke outfits during the celebrations. But as a cost-of-living crisis bites, people across Nigeria are learning how to party on the cheap. For the couple, cramming all these events into a single day is a good start. Even if you insist on the myriad of costume changes,…

Sunday, 01 September 2024 04:48

People who are deeply selfish usually display these 10 behaviors (without realizing it)

Selfishness can be a subtle trait, often disguised behind actions and words that seem ordinary. The key lies in recognizing patterns. People who are deeply selfish typically demonstrate certain behaviors, often without even realizing it themselves. These behaviors can help you understand the motivations behind their actions. In this article, we’ll explore ten of these tell-tale signs. Stay tuned if you’re looking to spot a deeply selfish person or just curious about human behavior. It’s not about judging, but understanding and navigating our relationships better. 1) They often put their needs first In the world of social dynamics, the capacity…

Sunday, 25 August 2024 03:56

Elon Musk’s walk with Jesus

Elon Musk is publicly offering his own interpretation of Jesus’ teachings with an Old Testament twist. “Christianity has become toothless,” the billionaire posted recently on his X social-media platform. “Unless there is more bravery to stand up for what is fair and right, Christianity will perish.” As Musk tweeted about Christianity, a friend of his, Jason Calacanis, replied jokingly: “If you’re going into your born again era we’re so here for it.” Responded Musk: “I believe in the principles of Christianity like love thy neighbor as thyself (have empathy for all) and turn the other cheek (end the cycle of…

Saturday, 24 August 2024 04:47

"It’ll come back later to haunt you": Eye-opening lessons older adults don't want Gen Z'ers to repeat

As someone in their late 20s, I know firsthand that this decade can be rough , so I'm always looking for those older than me to shed some wisdom. So when redditor u/Gandalfthewhitte asked people over 30 to share the advice they'd give to younger folks, I was all ears. Here are some of the valuable life lessons they mentioned. 1. "Take really good care of your teeth. Floss religiously. In general, don't abuse your health. You are at your strongest now, and things you do to yourself will usually come back later to haunt you." —u/DefenestrationPraha2. "Take that trip…

Saturday, 17 August 2024 04:23

People are sharing little experiences, traditions from abroad they wish they could adopt back home

Whenever you visit a new place, there are likely to be aspects of daily life there that feel totally new. And personally, I love discovering international habits or customs I wish I could adopt back home. So Redditor u/danielgmal asked, "What did you experience in another country that you wish you could make a part of your regular life?" Here's what people said. 1. "The cafe culture that is so common in France. I loved just sitting at an outdoor cafe and people watching while drinking my espresso with zero sense of rush." —u/Shot-Still8131 2. "In Portugal, I encountered lots…

Sunday, 11 August 2024 04:38

Venting doesn't reduce anger, but something else does, study says

Venting when angry seems sensible. Conventional wisdom suggests expressing anger can help us quell it, like releasing steam from a pressure cooker. But this common metaphor is misleading, according to a recent meta-analytic review. Researchers at Ohio State University analyzed 154 studies on anger, finding little evidence that venting helps. In some cases, it could increase anger. "I think it's really important to bust the myth that if you're angry you should blow off steam – get it off your chest," said senior author and communication scientist Brad Bushman when the results were published in April. "Venting anger might sound…

Friday, 09 August 2024 04:48

‘We’ve ousted this regime and will do so again’: the students bringing change to Bangladesh

Students are out in force on the streets of Dhaka, no longer protesting but working to put a city back together after the dramatic events of the past few days. After Monday’s resignation of Bangladesh’s prime minister, Sheikh Hasina, subsequent looting and pockets of violence meant the initial jubilation quickly turned to concern. There were reports that the offices of the ruling Awami League party, as well as homes and businesses of the minority Hindu population, were being attacked. During the past two days, students have been out cleaning up roads and wreckage, while groups of volunteers have formed to…

Sunday, 04 August 2024 03:14

Divorced people are revealing why they regret walking away from their marriage

Warning: This post contains mentions of abuse. We recently asked divorced people of the BuzzFeed Community who regret ending their marriage to tell us why and what they'd do differently. Here's what they had to say: 1. "My ex-husband and I started dating when we were both 18. We got married at 20 mainly because of issues with his student visa, as he wasn't from the US. I decided I wanted a divorce when we were 24 because I didn't feel how I felt in the beginning; I was attracted to other people, and I wasn't ready to have kids.…

Wednesday, 31 July 2024 04:47

Drinking just one alcoholic beverage per day shortens your lifespan by this insane amount

As it turns out, consuming just one alcoholic beverage per day — whether it be a pint of beer, a glass of wine or a shot of your favorite spirit — can shorten your lifespan by approximately two-and-a-half months, one expert asserts Dr. Tim Stockwell, of the Canadian Institute for Substance Use Research, told Daily Mail that those who drink significantly more alcohol than that — about 35 beverages a week — could slash a staggering two years off their lifespan. It’s a rude awakening for those who might like to unwind with a glass of pinot after a long…

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Saturday, 27 July 2024 04:47

Normal practices and routines from the past that have Gen Z'ers confused and perplexed

I am not that old, but one time, I was telling my younger cousins about how Netflix used to be a mailing service, and they were absolutely gobsmacked. I myself was kinda shocked too, because I'd just assumed that was common knowledge. (Wait till I tell them about the mythical world of Blockbuster.) So when redditor u/MrDNLasked the people of r/AskOldPeople to share the common knowledge from their time that younger generations might have a hard time believing, I was all in. Here are some of the responses that will either make you feel totally nostalgic or completely puzzled: 1.…

Monday, 22 July 2024 04:35

I talked to 70 parents who raised highly successful adults: Here are 4 things they always did when their kids were young

The summer is a good time to take stock of how your kids are faring. Are they doing something that excites them? Do they wake up every morning eager to get going? Are they happy? I did not ask about their grades, because if you answered “yes” to those questions, their GPA truly doesn’t matter. It matters if they are thriving. For my book “Raising an Entrepreneur,” I interviewed 70 parents who raised highly successful adults about how they helped their kids achieve their dreams. It was a diverse group, and the cohort included people of different races, religions, incomes,…

Sunday, 21 July 2024 04:39

Bible doubters shaken to the core after stunning find in the Israeli desert

A minor narrative in the Bible is rocketing to the forefront of the modern world’s mind after a stunning discovery in the deserts of modern Israel. The narrative, chronicled across two chapters in 2 Kings, details the march of the Assyrians on Israel and Judah during the reign of Judah’s King Hezekiah. The Assyrian host, headed by King Sennacherib, deals easily with Israel and turns its focus solely on Judah. Hezekiah is extorted by the foreign invader in 2 Kings 18, and the demanded ransom is gathered by stripping the temple of Yahweh of precious metal. The world is never…

Saturday, 20 July 2024 04:36

Married men are revealing the ‘hardest parts’ of marriage that no one talks about

We recently asked married men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the hardest parts of marriage that no one talks about. Here's what they had to say: 1. "Twenty-five years married here. The person you marry is going to change in each season of life, and you have to abandon your own selfishness and put in an effort to fall in love with them anew each time...and to help them find new ways to fall in love with you as you change, too. It's super hard because you're going to miss the person they used to be (before kids,…

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